Fears are part of everybody’s lives. There is always something that every normal person is afraid of. Oh! You are not? See…this is the problem. You do not even accept it. You are not brave enough to face it.
I am not talking about fear of spiders here! I am talking about the fears that life haunts you with. Someone is afraid of losing someone, someone is afraid of betrayals, someone is afraid of being poor, someone is afraid of hunger…. the list goes on and on. It’s a fact! We all are afraid of something. Sometimes it comes and goes but sometimes it’s settles so deep in your heart that you may never get out of it. So, you need to kick that bad boy out.
You may have heard the saying “A ship is safe in the harbor, but that’s not what it is made for”. A ship afraid of the waves and the storms can just stay at the harbor and it will be safe there. But what good that does? If you apply this in your own life then you may find that you are like such a ship.
You do not want to go out in the storms. You do not want to face the dark side. You feel so nice staying at the harbor. But guess what! This harbor is not worth staying. All your dreams, your aspirations, whatever you have planned..its out there in the storms!! So you have to turn on your engine and start moving. There is no guarantee that you won’t get hurt. There is no guarantee that you will not sink. But the picture after all this is worth everything you can give.
If you are aware of what you are really afraid of then you have already taken your first step. To punch your fear in its face, you have to face it first. That simple! You do not find yourself…You build yourself! So, kick out your fears and start building the best “you”.